According to podcast guest and international love strategist, Cynthia D’Amour, many of the relationships that start online are three times more likely to end in divorce. She also states that the most popular woman on dating sites is a late 20’s short, underweight and beautiful Asian (which is kind of depressing when you are in the late 40s, and a not quite short, overweight but adorable Black woman).
NOTE: I did not write at that all marriages that start online end in divorce. Nor did I write that only beautiful Asian women find love online.
Life and In-Person
Cynthia says, and I agree, that there is nothing wrong with meeting people the old-fashioned way … in person. She also says a lot of other statements, I can get behind.
Finding Love at Any Age
You don’t have to be in your 20s or 30s to find love. You don’t have to be in your 20s or 30s to find love. Contrary to conventional wisdom, you can find it in your 40s, 50s or beyond. It is possible.In fact, it could be in your best interest to find it offline and in person.
You Don’t Need to be Fixed
Forget the makeovers and the ‘new look’. Cynthia says (and again I agree), a man should want you for who you are right now, regardless of how you decide to show up.
Fun, feisty, fabulous and sassy, speaking with Cynthia was a blast!
Fun. Feisty. Fabulous! episode: Get Offline and Go Out, Part 1
Got ITunes? Listen to Be the Get Offline and Go Out, Part 1 on the Fun. Feisty. Fabulous! podcast page.